If only we could realize what Allah has offered us.

"oh goddd sanaa, i really am getting irritated with her", and the next moment you turn, u see the person hi fyying, laughing, being bff's with the very same person they backbited. they plot and plan against the person they spend almost all their time with. however can you expect such people to be loyal to anyone? wallahi i had never known or experience the wisdom behind why backbiting was such a major sin and how much it harms the society as a whole. the qualities exhibited by the people disgusted me.i was just fed up.i dint know if that girl i spoke to and whose claims to like me werent merely pretenses or if she went up telling people how she dosent wanna be with me and hates me.
       Backbiting and slander are such, that people are degraded to a level worse than an animal. they are an epitome of evil and selfish behaviour. atleast a dog is loyal to you and you know it isnt pretending. but hey, simple thing woman, why be with the person you call bi*** all the time? or why even talk to the person you cant stand? there are things in other religions that teach good and forbid evil. abstain people from harming others. but in no religion are the teachings so diverse as in islam. in no religion a person is compelled to follow it by his own true will.except islam. how beautiful and precise are its teaching. not only does it say to backbite and slander are evil but also expresses the degree of evil that it is. it compares it to eating one's own dead brother's flesh. how heineous and truely horrendous that thought seems! but even in the month of RAMADAAN WE DO IT!! and ALLAhuakbar! he still showers his mercy infinitely. when are we truely going to feel and rectify our mistakes? Ramadan is fr worshipping our creator ALLAH SWT. Who has created everything perfectly. Millions of galaxies with billions of stars. Stars of unfathomable radius. He is ALLAH, truely the one and only,the greatest.He shouts out to us, he is always eager to forgive us, always next to us.if only, if only we could turn to our creator and cry because the greatest mercy that he has showered upon us is that he has given us islam on a platter. and SUBHANALLAH we are like sheep, deaf, dumb blind and oblivous to everything around us.

Surah Al-Baqara, Verse 18:
صُمٌّ بُكْمٌ عُمْيٌ فَهُمْ لَا يَرْجِعُونَ

Deaf, dumb, and blind, they will not return (to the path).
   
 brothers and sisters, please let us not be among those people Allah SWT has mentioned here and sincerely repent and cry in dua'as and let those warm tears run down your cheeks for the love and fear of ALLAH SWT.

open your eyes,where are you?

i am not a frequent blogger, infact i dont even know if i can write and i often underestimate myself. but this particular time, scrolling through the various comments on youtube,i was left apprehensive.it were these unnerving and vile comments about saudi arabia that i found blasphemous and totally off the record.i was disturbed because none of it was correct.this is my attempt to bring forth the caveat supporting my statements. these were some of the comments that had me wondering as to what exactly the media is trying to portray out in the west? 

 ' if someone invade saudi-arabia i will be on his side saudiarabia is a tyranny,which terrorize its own people'
                  ' Unbelieveble that such countries exist in 21-st century.Very barbarian and crazy:('

• 'look at that woman can you see her? no because she is covered with a sheet while it is 40 degrees outside'

  'embrace no religion,look out for family and family alone,lie,steal and cheat your way to the top.i did and it feels good!'

  but before i sketch the drawbacks of saudi, i would like to say that every country has flaws, no one is perfect. the indian laws are flouted with impunity, the criminals roam free on bail or LOL theyre never arrested. rapes are happening as i type,the interest laden bank policies have heightened the gap between the rich and the poor,the corrupt politicians squander all the tax money and they do NOTHING for the country,oh and the freedom of speech that the democratic countries boast about? a girl had been arrested because she posted something abt thackerey and the list goes on. in contrast, i had written in negative about the saudi system two years ago and it was published in the gazette, who says they have sealed your mouth? i spoke against them, i was never arrested or tortured.although saudi arabia is not a democratic country, its tax free, the development level is four fold the development in india,unemployment rate is minimal,and as far as the rights for women goes,i live in that country, women are the most protected and the most respected. the west,which boats of freedom for women, women are actually being manipulated.they work,look after the kids,cook and then work. now isnt this injustice? where is the equality fr which u scream bloody murder? an advertisement for a car flaunts a woman who is half naked in a provocative stance,y dont men stand in underwears and pose instead? have u seen that? NO. 

  
  

   Are you a woman? Its a patriarchal society. You cant do much of anything if your a woman without the permission of the man who owns you at that particular time. it could be your father and brothers and Uncles, and then finally you are sold to your husband. If you dont wear it you could be arrested. You can lie all you want. But thats the fact.

         this is one of the many comments i found on it,wait, what?!! OWN? lol it seems my father owned me before i was SOLD to my husband.where do they get this from? LOL. hes saying if i dont wear a face cover i will be arrested.i never wore it,sure i was behind bars most of the time. :D

    islam understands the basic nature of man.can u deny women are ten fold more attractive than men? can u deny that women are physically weaker than men? they say,'instead of telling ur daughters not to step out at night,tell ur sons not to rape' ok,firstly, when the mothers are working the whole day, who is taking care of the children? they are learning their values from outside,morals that are degraded to the very core, how are you teaching your sons'NOT TO RAPE'? lol if u can even teach that. oh,maybe just conduct a drill once a week teaching your children what you missed out during the week. sarcasm aside, secondly,'its easier to guard and protect your daughter because even if you might be instilling values in your sons, there still are neglected men out there who are animals,or worse. just what saudi does,at night if your roaming alone, the police is bound to come and ask you, not because they want to arrest u because they want to keep the society safe!yes,theres punishment for adultery,but only if there are four sound witnesses to it,i dont find that out of line because we if adultery and rape is taken lightly it will shake the core morals of our society which are very firm and im proud that my country still eschews these vices and our morality is still preserved.

           look if you hate us, ur welcome. we hate evil and feel that screwing hoes, prostitution, rape, adultery, alcohol and AIDS is not cool. and we will always be strict about it. you dont like it, u dont live it. simple. stop imposing evil on us. WE DONT WANT IT. we are happy as can be and i love the peace it brings us. there are so many other things to say but i guess it will be all. phew! there, i let half of it out.

out to all women in the world....being allowed to be a hoe, stripper, cheat on your spouse, screw every man you meet....that is not liberation....wake up.......oh and being able to show your body off to strangers is not liberation......its enslavement